And that I don't have a problem with. It's a live person looking people up, and actually checking out the people they're friending.

But these last three incidents played out as chiss up above said--it was a spambot, and this last time (last night) when I posted to the owner of the LJ that he'd friended an RPG journal and not a real person's LJ, he was all 'STFU and just don't friend it back then!'.

So not only was it 'who is this?!', but the guy was rude too, when all I was doing was letting him know was that Derek's LJ was an RPG journal, and probably not what he meant to friend.