*Sigh*

[silverthorne]

Okay. Tolerance is a good thing. Cultural diversity is a good thing. Letting people keep their traditions is a good thing.

...I just received a 200-page-thick workbook for the nurses in post partum.

It is pages and pages of how to deal with people from different cultures. Everything except how to deal with white people.

Thing is, most of it? Is common sense and general ettiquette that even the dreaded 'white people' know. Or at least it was at some point. Lord knows I was raised that way, because most of what I read was 'no shit, I knew that already'. The rest of it, if you listen to your patient in the first place and work with them (and the patient communicates and just doesn't get all closed-mouthed), should come easy enough.

The nurses though will have to go to classes for this. Memorize it all. Take tests. Get certificates for it or do it all over again.

Just so someone's toes don't get stepped on.

I'm all for being polite and meeting people in the social middle.

But this? Shit like this, when it's required reading because if we don't do it, some numbnut somewhere will take exception to the way you bow your head to them or something else which should be pretty damned trivial in the face of trying to take care of a sick patient, will sue the crap out of the hospital for racial discrimination.

The fact that we even need books like this just make me want to hide from everyone on the fucking planet until they remove cranial mass from rectum area.

This is when I start losing faith and losing willingess to listen to 'white people are horrible' things. This right here.

Everyone has got to bend a little, or we will all break.

Comments

Re: Clarification

[silverthorne.livejournal.com]

...except I'm not the one comparing our discussion to rape, torture, murder, forced relocation, etc. It seems, from my POV, that you keep reading into what I say and just keep pissing yourself off over it, in which case, yeah, we really do not have anything more to say to each other. As soon as it starts getting into personal judgment calls on any discussion, it's ceased to be a discussion and more of a 'look here, you idiot, listen to me and admit I'm right'.

...which is not really all that conducive to any discussion.

Re: Clarification

[skalja.livejournal.com]

To quote you:

What I feel is sad, because what is getting thrown at me at this point is the same shit that my ancestors (them, not me), threw at others.

Admittedly, I don't know exactly what your ancestors did or did not do (neither, for that matter, do you), but you are nevertheless comparing your treatment in this discussion to racist behavior of the past. Which is an incredibly provocative statement even referring only to the most minor incidents that black, Indian, Asian descent, and immigrants both white and non-white have had to deal with in the last half of the last century. And dude, you didn't specify that far, so yes, whatever you were thinking in your head, your actual words implicitly compared your treatment in a mildly heated internet discussion to the victims of hate crimes.

I'm not pissed off so much as dumbfounded.