silverthorne: Painting of a cougar sneaking through underbrush (Lime Cat)
silverthorne ([personal profile] silverthorne) wrote2006-03-24 07:33 am

Huh. Impressed a bit here...

Here's a step in the right direction...

Of course, get this gem (quoted from the article):

The bill's chief sponsor, Rep. Ron Hood, contends that children raised by gay parents face increased risk of physical and emotional problems. His concerns are shared by many conservative groups which argue that same-sex partnerships are less stable than heterosexual marriages.



No shit. You think?

Ever occur to you the reason behind that is because you try to get legislation passed that essentially states 'the general public thinks this lifestyle choice is wrong and we will do anything to stop it'? Or that same-sex relationships fall apart a lot of times from sheer social pressure?

No? Hmn. Maybe that's part of the problem.

Not only do same-sex partners have to deal with ALL of the usual marriage problems (without any of the governmental benefits, either--like, say, TAX BREAKS--that hetero pairs get, or legal recognition, like having a legally acknowledged marriage), but they have to deal with harassment, constantly changing laws that usually end up in worse shape than when they started, harassment, losing their children and livelihood if the locals don't like it, harassment...

I said that already, didn't I?

Anyway--point being--of COURSE the relationships aren't as stable--there's incredible outside pressure for it NOT to work.

Try actually supporting the lifestyle just like you do for hets...bet me it would settle down into the same stats for 'things going wrong' once all the extraneous pressure is gone.

But hey, what do I know, right?

Oops...I'm on the soap box. XD.

Anyhow...good going on the adoption people.

BAD legislator. Get with the program.

[identity profile] hey-montana.livejournal.com 2006-03-24 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
1. You are so right about that. All of it.

2. LIMECAT.

[identity profile] janewt.livejournal.com 2006-03-24 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
One of the really nice things was finding that in Massachusetts, a year after they made gay marriage legal, opposition had dwindled massively. Not completely, and of course as the numbers of opponents got smaller, I think they got more intense, but my impression is that a lot of politicians who had opposed it turned around or at least backed off. In a lot of ways it seemed like people realized "Gee. Huh. The world didn't end. Gosh. So, let's go talk about public schools and the environment and welfare and stuff."

I mean, I haven't followed the situation very deeply, but it has seemed hopeful here.

[identity profile] elysepatrice.livejournal.com 2006-03-24 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)
same-sex partnerships are less stable than heterosexual marriages.

Um, have these people checked the stats on the divorce rates in this country? And how many hetero couples have horrid relationships--that negatively affect their children--and never get a divorce?

Weak, weak argument, if you ask me.

BTW--how's it going? Long time no type. :)