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silverthorneI am so glad that when I am 'being a girl', it lasts for a grand total of one day. Still sore, but I no longer want to remove my uterus with a spoon, which is a good thing. I might actually be able to get through the work day without being hunched over on myself. ^^
The Ankle Of Popping is doing fine, too. The swelling is mostly gone, so now its just the lovely bruise that covers the ankle and the left side of my left foot. No limping, no pain, and flexibility has returned. YAY!
So...still keeping track of the whole Richie/Heather thing because, well...everyonce and a while I just gotta pick the celebrity scab. Blame my grandmother--she alwyas had at least three gossip rags floating around the house...
So, Heather is divorcing Richie because she found an email with (I'm not sure who's, I missed that part) one of their personal assistant naked except for boots on Richie's computer.
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Okay, then.
Heather...sweetie...darling. A picture does not indicate infidelity. Small clue here...rather, a few.
1) Guys look. They will. Even upstanding, never-lay-a-hand-on-another-woman, haven't had sex in years, men will look. I should know--my own dad is one of those guys. And he had several subscriptions to mags of a certain nature, if you get my meaning.
That he would save. And look at again.
2) Rock Star. You know--like Tommy. That other guy you divorced? Even if Richie never lays a hand on any other girl, he's going to get some pretty fucked up pictures from 'fans'. He's still a guy. He's still going to look. Thing is...unless he's smarter than 99% of Hollywood, if he was doing more than looking...it would be out and about the news by now.
Long before now, in fact. It's Hollywood. People out there live for that kind of thing. They will go looking. With a vengence.
3) Why the fuck are you rifling through his email? Way to go there, girl. Gimme a break
4) If you're that upset--fire the assistant. If it's his assistant--ask him to fire her. If it was just her, problem solved. If not, you'll know for sure rather than raking a guy over the coals for doing what 90% of guys will do when handed a picture of a naked woman. Thus far, the only proof you have of anything is the email she sent him.
5) Why the fuck didn't you talk to him first?
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Tommy, my comments are shorter, but still.
1) Stupid to save the picture there, guy. Especially if the woman works with you or Heather. That's a sure-fire way to get your ass handed to you--which it was.
2) Uh...if you are 'having an affair with the secretary'--then you are really, really stupid.
3) Never, ever, give you passwords out to other people, not even your loved ones, okay? More fights and misunderstandings start from another family member mis-seeing an email than most other causes nowadays. Even if you have nothing to hide--just one little thing can come up and screw it all to hell if the person that got into your account sees something and makes a decision based on what information they have, right or wrong.
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And yes, to everyone else. I realize I don't know the whole story. Richie may have been cheating on her for years and this is the final straw. Maybe she's having a nervous breakdown. Maybe the marriage simply isn't as solid as it seemed for twelve years. Who knows?
But, really....divorce papers over one email?
Gimme a break.
The Ankle Of Popping is doing fine, too. The swelling is mostly gone, so now its just the lovely bruise that covers the ankle and the left side of my left foot. No limping, no pain, and flexibility has returned. YAY!
So...still keeping track of the whole Richie/Heather thing because, well...everyonce and a while I just gotta pick the celebrity scab. Blame my grandmother--she alwyas had at least three gossip rags floating around the house...
So, Heather is divorcing Richie because she found an email with (I'm not sure who's, I missed that part) one of their personal assistant naked except for boots on Richie's computer.
...
Okay, then.
Heather...sweetie...darling. A picture does not indicate infidelity. Small clue here...rather, a few.
1) Guys look. They will. Even upstanding, never-lay-a-hand-on-another-woman, haven't had sex in years, men will look. I should know--my own dad is one of those guys. And he had several subscriptions to mags of a certain nature, if you get my meaning.
That he would save. And look at again.
2) Rock Star. You know--like Tommy. That other guy you divorced? Even if Richie never lays a hand on any other girl, he's going to get some pretty fucked up pictures from 'fans'. He's still a guy. He's still going to look. Thing is...unless he's smarter than 99% of Hollywood, if he was doing more than looking...it would be out and about the news by now.
Long before now, in fact. It's Hollywood. People out there live for that kind of thing. They will go looking. With a vengence.
3) Why the fuck are you rifling through his email? Way to go there, girl. Gimme a break
4) If you're that upset--fire the assistant. If it's his assistant--ask him to fire her. If it was just her, problem solved. If not, you'll know for sure rather than raking a guy over the coals for doing what 90% of guys will do when handed a picture of a naked woman. Thus far, the only proof you have of anything is the email she sent him.
5) Why the fuck didn't you talk to him first?
*************
Tommy, my comments are shorter, but still.
1) Stupid to save the picture there, guy. Especially if the woman works with you or Heather. That's a sure-fire way to get your ass handed to you--which it was.
2) Uh...if you are 'having an affair with the secretary'--then you are really, really stupid.
3) Never, ever, give you passwords out to other people, not even your loved ones, okay? More fights and misunderstandings start from another family member mis-seeing an email than most other causes nowadays. Even if you have nothing to hide--just one little thing can come up and screw it all to hell if the person that got into your account sees something and makes a decision based on what information they have, right or wrong.
*******************
And yes, to everyone else. I realize I don't know the whole story. Richie may have been cheating on her for years and this is the final straw. Maybe she's having a nervous breakdown. Maybe the marriage simply isn't as solid as it seemed for twelve years. Who knows?
But, really....divorce papers over one email?
Gimme a break.
